The wikipedia states; A soul-mate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity, similarity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, or compatibility.Which actually , makes much more sense to me.
I used to define it as a connection so strong that I can be drawn to a person in a way I have never experienced before. “Chemistry” is one important element, so I used say.
However (as time travels along with its perky force of troubles, moments to make decision, pain and whatnot) I somehow learn that not any of those deep affinity in a relationship can be attained without effort, affection, tested by time and trials, or sometimes distance and for sure; not enough by being flourished with oh dear the L word, Love… which, my dear… is a verb.
Bad news people; Soul-mate is earned!
So move your sweet a##, get to know that guy on the 11th floor , fall in and out of love, call and ask her out, try again. Say amen at the end of your prayer, but get over your past and move on. Be an answer for someone. You may found the answer to your questions too.
(Tempted to relate the heavenly force here but I deleted it. Who am I kidding? Heaven has nothing to do with it
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